carrying bricks

September 7, 2012 (yes, still typing a week later...)

On facebook, I read:

If you carry bricks from your past relationships to the new one, you will build the same house.  The bricks consist of fear, jealousy, control, anger, doubt, lack of trust.
Leave the bricks behind!
(Xylang Jaad Xyla's status)

Do I do this in my relationship with You?  :-(
And with others?  :-(
I mean about carrying the bricks from the past with me?

Please help me leave those bricks behind.